Posts Tagged ‘custody’

This really ticks me off.  I mean really ticks me off.   Two small children have been raised for 5 years by 2 mothers.  One day the legally recognized mom decides that she wants out of the relationship.  Sometimes it’s because of another love interest, sometimes it’s because her brain was sucked out by the force of religion . . . it really doesn’t matter why. 

All that matters for the kids is that their parents are no longer going to live together.  It is a crushing blow to children.  Their parents are their anchor to the world.  Everything revolves around their parents. 

In light of the f – – – ed up law in the US, many gay and lesbian parents can take advantage of the situation.  You see in heterosexual relationships there are laws to protect these children and governmental systems put in place so that parents can’t deny a child their other parent just because of a breakup.   However, in the case of a lesbian relationship . . . it’s a cage match to the end. 

So here are these right-wing crazy fool Christian f – – – wads who come in and try to help the scum bag mother who would keep her children from their other mother just because she doesn’t want to be in a relationship any longer. 

Judges often see through this and rule in the best interest of the children.  And believe me, it is in the best interest of the children to assist them in maintaining a relationship with both parents. 

No, not to the right wing crazed Christian a-holes.  All they care about is making sure that the lesbian is punished.  Forget about the kids – get the lesbo.

Scum – they are scum.  They can’t believe the judge is going to let these children have contact with both of their parents.  I mean . . . really . . . the ex-gay mom bought and paid for them!  Here is a link – CLICK HERE.

 

UPDATE:  Here is another one from Pams House Blend.  Can you imagine how much these moms are spending to in order to try to keep in contact with their children.  It is criminal!

Yet Another Round in Virginia (So-Called) Ex-Gay vs. Vermont Lesbian Custody Battleby: KatRose
Thu Oct 02, 2008 at 13:41:04 PM EDT

 Pam reports on the (so-Called) Concerned (Occasionally) Women (cough! hack!) for America and their attempt to keep a mother from seeing her children.  Here is what the CWA wrote:

Please act now to pray and support Lisa Miller as she fights to keep her daughter, Isabella. Embroiled in a custody battle with her former lesbian partner, Lisa is now a Christian who wants to raise her own biological child but has been told by the Vermont courts that they may strip her of those rights. Pray for Lisa as she and her legal counsel attend a hearing that will take place on October 27, 2008, in Vermont. At that hearing, a judge will decide whether or not Lisa will be punished for supposedly disobeying the court-ordered visitation to a woman who is not biologically related to her child.

Lisa’s attorney, Rena Lindevaldsen, has written a letter to update everyone on Lisa’s current situation. Rena gives her own account of Lisa’s story and explains what will happen in the coming months. To read Rena’ letter, in its entirety, please go to http://www.cwfa.org/images/content/millerrenaletter.pdf.

“WND – A Free Press for a Free People” 

You know about World Net Daily, right?  The Internet “news” site that is also known as “WND – World Nuts’ Daily.”

If you’ve never heard of the site, let’s just say that WND is tilted toward the right wing, evangelical, crazy-conservative view of news and world events. 

Well, finally WND is catching on to the real lives of lesbian couples.  Yes, it’s true.  It really is.

A few weeks ago I described my relationship in a post titled “We’re Not Lesbians We’re A Straight Married Couple.”  And now, WND has an article on the same subject titled “Lesbian Child Custoday Battles and Heterosexual Divorce,” pointing out that when it comes to breaking up – our relationships look a lot like their relationships.  Yes, Virginia, these creatures seem to have the same traits as real humans!

While the WND article tries to make the point, “see – told you it wasn’t the man’s fault when parents act like asses during a divorce;”  the article actually makes a much more important point.  If us lesbians act like married people and have children just liked married people – it looks like a marriage, walks like a marriage – the law should allow lesbians to get friggin married. 

However, the HUGE point is this.   What do married people do when they break up?  They act like asses.  What is one of the worst things that can happen during these situations?  The children get used as weapons.  How does society keep some order to this mess and how do we protect the children?  We have laws and a judicial system to help these families come together and for parents to go their own way.   And, we know that even with this judicial system in place for heterosexual families  – people still find a way to hurt each other and children. 

Now, why on Earth is society (especially the children described in the WND article) in a better place by giving lesbians a who-knows-anything-goes system?  In most states, there is no way for a family with lesbian parents to legally connect nor a system for them to divide their belongings and decide on child custody, visitation or child support.   I mean – really, couldn’t state laws at least incorporate a cage match into the system to give us some boundaries? 

Hello WND – your common sense is showing. 

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