Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: you up?
OneLesbo:
suck up to lovely spouse . . . and express gratitude (that’s for you Katie)
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: ok ..i’ll check with you later
OneLesbo: anything up
OneLesbo: I didn’t mean to run you away
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: hmm a bit
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: we can talk later
OneLesbo: well, I’d love to avoid the dishes and the trash if you’re in the mood
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: sure
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: Lori feels like she needs to move back home..her parents are failing…
OneLesbo: where do they live?
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: Indiana..she doesn’t want to move there..but somewhere in the east where it would be a short jaunt..chicago for instance
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: she is back visiting..called me crying today
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: sad
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: I understand though
OneLesbo: I can totally understand. I had many of those days. Does she have siblings?
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: yes
OneLesbo: where are they
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: Indiana
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: but they are really lame
OneLesbo: Well, as you know – parents getting older – not fun
OneLesbo: getting older . . . not fun
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: I know..just tough
OneLesbo: I finally had to decide to live my life – I begged my mother to come live with us numerous times
OneLesbo: when she wouldn’t – I had to do what was best for me, Lovely Spouse and Our son
OneLesbo: when she broke her hip I stayed there in rehab with her – almost night and day for almost a month
OneLesbo: but it can go on so long – and you can’t just put your life on hold while it happens
OneLesbo: do you think there are other motivating factors for her thoughts about moving?
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: I know you did..Lori ‘s folks don’t even call her but she is the only functional family member…oh she hates her job here
OneLesbo: If she wanted to move to the same town as them – or within driving distance – I
But the fact that she’d still have to fly there to see them . . . what do you think . . .
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: we get along well..no fighting at all..but she loves to watch football,basketball,tennis golf and I like to be outside
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: well from HERE it is so hard to get anywhere…takes a whole day to get to the midwest or back east
OneLesbo: that’s true
OneLesbo: So has she said what the plan would be for the two of you?
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: we get a long but she never really learned how to show love for someone..I am too needy for her..
OneLesbo: Yes, there is a certain level of constant adoration required, isn’t there 🙂
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: I think the plan was for her to pass the bar exam which has happened
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: i like mutual admiration..respect
OneLesbo: oops – I just spelled it wrong 🙂 I certainly meant admiration –
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: anyway..she really is a good person and she is struggling
OneLesbo: so, how did you two leave it
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: oh an you will be happy to know I saw Carie at gay pride..she looked old,haggard and had tattoes on he forearms
OneLesbo: tattoos?
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: I just listened to her..I knew she was already struggling
OneLesbo: okay – sorry but I have to know – what were the images on the arms?
OneLesbo: palm trees with naked women – like a sailor would have?
OneLesbo: I hope my jokes are cheering you up
OneLesbo: I don’t want to make light of Lori’s situation
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: big old colored tattoes ..kind of like mike wrought iron fence around the dog run..flear d lee..how ever you spell that
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: my not mike
OneLesbo: nice description – I totally get it . . . well, I don’t get it but I do understand how it would look
OneLesbo: well, that’s certainly . . . odd
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: in sort of a circular fashion…and she was arm in arm with another exe of mine Asia…
OneLesbo: oh my
OneLesbo: I don’t remember Asia – who is she
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: well I never went all the way so to speak with Asia
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: remember the chick whom I told …you look so beautiful tonight?
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: and she said…i am so fucking tired of people telling me that, I wish you’d stop?
OneLesbo: No I don’t remember but I love the story
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: It was my birthday..we were in laguna beach
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: I said Asia…you are not that beautiful.
OneLesbo: I’m laughing
OneLesbo: guess she got her wish
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: kinda ended the romance.
OneLesbo: so, nice detour – what are you going to do about Lori?
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: so my friend Sidney has been out her visiting and she said they both looked like hell..Asia was not attractive at all( I truly did not even recognize her)
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: I told Lori I understand and she just needs to decide
OneLesbo: Remind me who Sidney is
OneLesbo: so would the two of you (Lori and you – of course) still be a couple? exclusive monogomy ?
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: I went out with Sidney 2-3 times..big fat girl
OneLesbo: I remembered fat but can’t remember much else
OneLesbo: where does she live
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: Now in Richmond VA
OneLesbo: “big fat girl” your adjectives sound like my Aunt Lizzie talking
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: I know ..good eatin
OneLesbo: okay – who was the one with the foot thing – the smaller one – I’m putting them together in one round mound of mess
OneLesbo: the other one from VA
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: Allison..she is coming out next week
OneLesbo: of course she is 🙂
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: gonna get married in Big Sur
OneLesbo: really?
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: yes
OneLesbo: what’s that story
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: they fly in to San Jose then get married and drive up here.
OneLesbo: so are you the flower girl, or what?
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: it’s a long story
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: now I am honeymoon
OneLesbo: Yeah, that’s what I was thinking
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: plus they are bringing a friend
OneLesbo: honey, let’s get married and spend our honeymoon with an old girlfriend
OneLesbo: she has great feet and toes
OneLesbo: you’re gonna love her
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: who the friend?
OneLesbo: no – you
aren’t you the honeymoon destination?
OneLesbo: So is Lori going to miss out on this fun?
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: well it is just a formality kind of thing
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: Lori will be here while they are here
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: I think
OneLesbo: marriage is a sacrament
OneLesbo: are you wondering if I’m serious?
OneLesbo: I’m not
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: she may just decide to stay with her best friend multi millionaire ex in LA
OneLesbo: oh yes – marriage – did you and Lori talk about that
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: we;; they are going to do civil ceremony then have a regualr marriage with a minister in georgia
OneLesbo: geez, such a spot for all of those lesbians living together who . . . . really just aren’t that sure . . .
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: Lori said she did not believe in gay marriage…Lori is as close to a fundamentalist christian as a lesbain can be
OneLesbo: are you making that up?
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: no
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: she went to one of those places for a year where they convert you…
OneLesbo: I erased what I was going to type
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: actually lived in a home
OneLesbo: wish lesbians could open those places for straight women – I could make a million in those programs, recruiting women to become ex-straights
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: the minute she got there she found a woman
OneLesbo: I’m sure – that’s what they do – put you in a home together – – oh that will cure a bunch of lesbos . . . what a deal – you don’t even have to go out on one date before you live together – yee haw
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: llaughing but not funny
OneLesbo: You had never revealed this little tid bit to me about Lori
OneLesbo: because i would have yelled
OneLesbo: run Forest run
OneLesbo: so Lori still doesn’t “believe in” marriage between two people of the same gender?
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: well we never really talk so how could I
OneLesbo: Kinda like Our son, he’s not sure he believes in the Tooth Fairy
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: she might believe in a legal union
OneLesbo: Michael at school told him that his dad is the Tooth Fairy, I said, “Mr. Johnson – geez I never pictured the Tooth Fairy looking like that!”
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: you know I have a bit of the same thing as her
OneLesbo: well, that’s because you’ve never been in a long-term healthy relationship . . . in my opinion – well, except for a short time that I recall quite well 🙂
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: not sure I get the tooth fairy analogy
OneLesbo: she doesn’t “believe in ” gay marriage
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: well we have been together for 4 years
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: it has been healthier than anything I have ever experienced
OneLesbo: ouch
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: hey lived together day to day…she has been here with my folks..my Dad dying..it hasn’t been a date
OneLesbo: true
OneLesbo: how is your mother by the way
OneLesbo: anytime I swim in cold water I think if her
OneLesbo: her graceful dives
OneLesbo: beautiful stroke in the water
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: we both have some preconceived faith things that are in common
OneLesbo: well, Lovely Spouse is an ex-Catholic atheist who is not shy about telling people
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: thank you..she doesn’t dive..but she swims everyday..but she no longer has her swimming partner
OneLesbo: your mother is so sweet
OneLesbo: and beautiful
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: well I thought about being a minister as you may recall..
OneLesbo: we should all be so lucky to look like her
OneLesbo: yes, I recall
OneLesbo: do you still go to the same churchdo you still go to the same church
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: You probably need to accept I have grown up just as you have..
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: my IM’s don’t seem to be going to you
OneLesbo: and at least one of mine went 2 times
OneLesbo: strange
OneLesbo: the conversation does seem to be more disjointed that even the usual IM conversation – usually we only have two subjects going at once – I now believe we have 4
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: she is an atheist?
OneLesbo: yes she is an atheist
OneLesbo: and quick to say it
OneLesbo: not agnostic
OneLesbo: atheist
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: so are you an athiest?
OneLesbo: no, I wouldn’t say that
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: or however you spell it
OneLesbo: I’m a fence sitting agnostic skeptical believer of Jesus
OneLesbo: amen
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: I’ll pray for you
OneLesbo: that made me giggle – was it supposed to?
OneLesbo: Our son once asked me, “Mommy, in our family do we believe in God?”
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: Lori and I both have a deep personal faith..we visit different churches..it ws supposed to make you gigle..I hope you told him yes
OneLesbo: no – that’s not what I told him
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: what did you tell him
OneLesbo: I said that to be in our family you’re not required to believe in God
OneLesbo: Mom does not believe in God
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: that’s ok
OneLesbo: he seemed okay with it
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: everyone needs to come to their own faith but they should be exposed to higher teachings
OneLesbo: exactly
OneLesbo: that’s what he and I discussed
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: not sure how many buddhist temples are in the Heartland of America
OneLesbo: that we would help him find out about different beliefs and then we’d trust him when he’s a grown up to have his own beliefs
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: have one here right next to the house
OneLesbo: you people in California
OneLesbo: So, I need to go – we’re going on a cruise and fly out for Miami on Friday
OneLesbo: Lovely Spouse and I haven’t argued for 2 days
OneLesbo: don’t want to blow it just before the trip
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: well in my opinion not that it means one thing…I would take him to some houses of religion
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: good for you..I will pray for you again
OneLesbo: good – I can use lots of prayers – pray that Lovely Spouse and I don’t kill each other
OneLesbo: if you see on the news that a woman was lost at sea . . .
OneLesbo: be sure and listen for names
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: I willpray for you nightly
OneLesbo: okay – hope it all works out for Lori
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: you’ll be fine
OneLesbo: blessings to you – goodnight
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: she will move back home..it wll be fine…
OneLesbo: bye
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee: bye
Ex-GF/SurgeonHottiee signed off at 11:15 P.M.
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